Friday, November 8, 2013

you get what you.... well you know!


I have not had the best last two weeks.  It has been ROUGH!!  Olivia and Braxton seem to be teaming up on me and doing whatever they can to get me to have a breakdown.  Braxton is now to the height where he can reach everything that I think he can't.  So I am constantly rearranging my house to accommodate for the growth spurt.   All the while, Olivia turned 4, Ben turned 29, we had Halloween, and our 6 yr anniversary.  I am still going to school, and training for a 1/2 marathon.  Things are getting a little crazy around here.  And just the other day, my VT supervisor came to me and church and insisted there was something wrong with the report that I haven't don't VT since June.  NOPE!  That is correct.  I am the worst VT in the world.  But I just don't have time right now.  I know that is not an excuse, but that is mine right now.  I am barely nice to my kids because I feel so stressed out.  PLUS we just certified for Foster Care.  It has been quite the last few months.  So I have decided that I am going to take quite an easy semester next one.  

Olivia started ABCmouse.com in sept.  I was looking for something to give her some direction on learning time here at home and also give her activities.  Until we can hopefully get her in preschool in Jan.  Lets cross our fingers!  Meanwhile, we started this.  IT IS AMAZING!  Olivia loves it.  She is constantly begging to do it.  It is really great.  She just passed level 1 in Preschool and moved on to harder things.  She is doing great, and learning so much.

   I have really been trying to run every morning on the treadmill.  I have made it a goal to run a 1/2 marathon this next summer, and I AM GOING TO DO IT!  I need this.
Anywho, it is getting hard as to what to feed the kids for breakfast.  I try to get up at 7, they sleep until 730 usually, and make them breakfast.  Sometimes that doesn't work, so i give them what we have.  I usually give Braxton cereal, but we don't have any lately.  It is just too expensive.  AND I haven't made it to Walmart in a while.  So this morning was oatmeal.  He DESTROYED it!
Glad he got it on himself and not all over the carpet.


Yesterday was especially hard with the kids.  I have had a LOT of homework lately, and I can't seem to get ahead.  So today I have summoned one of the YW to come and babysit for a few hours so I can get a head.  Ben is gone all day for a football game.  
Yesterday was hard, and something yesterday morning stuck with me really hard while looking at pinterest.  
As I have read this so many times, I really felt that this is not just with my workouts, but with life.  I will only get what I put in.  So I have a new found motivation to hopefully finish the semester, and I will not pile my load so high next semester.

After we ate lunch yesterday with Ben at this school, the kids were awful in the morning, we got home,and went to ballet, then they both were AMAZING!  I know it was Heavenly Father giving me a tender mercy.  He knew that if they were any worse, I might kill one of them or have a mental breakdown.  I am so thankful that He knows how much I can handle.  The kids were so sweet and Braxton just wanted to play with me and cuddle and kiss.  It made me feel so much better, and loved from them.  It is hard to be a mom with a husband that is gone ALL THE TIME!  But I am grateful for my faith and testimony and knowing that my Savior loves me, and keeps a look out for me.

Tuesday, October 15, 2013

what a visit!

LaNell and Aaron came to visit.  It was fun.  They were only here for a few days and we didn't get to spend as much time with them as we wanted to due to football practice and me doing homework as well as kids naps.  It is always busy.  But for the time they were here, it was fun!




 I can't believe this girl is going to be 4 in about 2 weeks!  She is getting so big and such a little sass!  She has such a mouth, and will try to negotiate whenever possible.  But she is so fun!

Right after they left, Olivia got sick.  Then I got sick.  Ben has been off school this week, and the first 3 days we barely left the house due to sickies.  But we did enjoy having the fire going all day and just laying around watching movies.  

Friday, September 27, 2013

So Frustrating.

You know, I know that I live in the very "liberal" area of the state.  I am still not used to it, but it is getting really annoying when it really affects my work.  I am in school this semester, attending Mendocino College.  It has been kind of hard.  I am attending all online.  I have had some recent things surface just in one of my classes.  Of course, I know that it was going to happen, since my English class is going to be covering some social topics.  It was almost inevitable, but I was hoping that since I had a less judgmental attitude about it, that others might as well.  Well, they DON'T!
I just typed this paper and answered some questions regarding an article the teacher chose.  It was out of 150 points and she gave me 145.  This just really irritates me.  I completed everything she asked me to do.  And, mind you, when she didn't really give very good directions either.  Well the article was about Loggers.  I happened to agree with the writers point of view.  And that was what her topic was.  We were learning to write definition essays and how to write good arguments.  I felt like she stated a very good argument regarding Loggers, and I agreed.  I typed that, and I guess she felt like she needed to take away the 5 points for that.  There was no other reason.  I know that I am venting about this, but isn't that what a blog is for?  It just irritates me that the teacher is obviously more liberal and closer to an environmentalist than I am, and for that she needs to take away points.  Now some of you are probably thinking, why don't you just ask her what she docked the point for... and that is a good question, but this is the same teacher that i just had a disagreement with regarding rated R movies, and I feel like it might make it even more difficult for me go get a good grade in her class if I keep making myself known with criticism about her class and grading policies all the time.  I am just utilizing my blog for my venting and complaints.  Ultimately, I know that if I really wanted to look into it, I could ask her about it and she would give me some bogus answer like, you should have addressed this, and you didn't.  Just another thing I hate about the subject English.  I am more of a Math and Science person.  In these subjects, there is always a right and wrong answer and very few if any fru fru answers like, well what do you fell like it should be?  or i was looking for this and you answered with that, but that could be right too.  That drives me crazy.  There is a right and wrong to get all the points, so just tell me what to do, and I will do it to get an A.  I remember Ben asking one of his teachers at Chico State how to get an A and he literally said, Nobody can get 100% in this class!  WHY????  are you trying to make it really hard so that the other teachers at the school look at you and think, man he is a good teacher because it is hard to get an A in that class... SO DUMB!!  isn't that completely against the reason that people should actually go into teaching?  Aren't you supposed to be helping people achieve success? Not to mention that you, as a teacher, should be completely neutral politically on how you grade.  If you want to be liberal or conservative, that is your decision!!  But you shouldn't be letting that reflect how you grade your students.  Believe it or not, some of us might have different opinions that yours.
  That qualifies as a bad teacher to me, when you are just focused on the grades that people get in your class.  PUKE!
any who... that is that.  you can read it if you want.  Make up your own mind.  Let me know what you all think!

The article we read.
A Logger's Lament
by Lelia L. Kysar

(Newsweek, October 22, 1990)


1          My father was a logger.  My husband is a logger.  My sons will not be loggers.  Loggers are an endangered species, but the environmental groups, which so righteously protect endangered species in the animal kingdom, have no concern for their fellow human beings under siege.  Loggers are a much misunderstood people, pictured as brutal rapists of our planet, out to denude it of trees and, as a result, of wildlife.

2          It is time to set the record straight.  Loggers take great pride in the old-growth trees, the dinosaurs of the forests, and would be sorry to see them all cut.  There are in the national forests in Washington and Oregon (not to mention other states) approximately 8.5 million acres of forested land, mostly old growth set aside, never to be used for timber production.  In order to see it all, a man would have to spend every weekend and holiday for 60 years looking at timber at a rate of more than 1,000 acres per day.  This does not include acreage to be set aside for spotted-owl protection.

3          In addition to this huge amount of forested land never to be logged, the State of Washington Forest Practices Act, established in 1973, specifies that all land that is clear-cut of trees must be replanted unless converted to some other use.  As a tree farmer generally plants more trees per acre than he removes, more trees are being planted than are being cut.  In the last 20 years in Clark County, Wash., alone, the Department of Natural Resources has overseen the planting of at least 15,000 acres of previously unforested private lands.

4          The term logger applies to the person harvesting trees.  A tree farmer is the one who owns the land and determines what is to be done with it.  To a tree farmer, clear-cutting is no more than the final harvest of that generation of trees.  The next spring, he reforests the land.  To the public, clear-cutting is a bad word.  Does the public cry shame when a wheat farmer harvests his crop and leaves a field of stubble in place of the beautiful wheat?

5          In the pacific Northwest, in five years, the newly planted trees will grow taller than the farmer's head; in 10 years, more than 15 feet tall; and in 20 to 30 years, the trees will be ready for the first commercial harvest.  The farmer then thins the trees to make room for better growth.  In 40 to 50 years, he will be ready to clear-cut his farm and replant again.  Contrary to public opinion, it does not  take 300 to 400 years to grow a Douglas fir tree to harvestable age.

6          Tree farming keeps us in wood products.  We build with wood, write on paper and even use the unmentionable in the bathroom.  But in order to keep this flow of wood products available, we need to keep it economically feasible to grow trees.  If we restrict the tree-farming practices because we do not like clear-cuts or because some animal might (and probably might not) become extinct, or we restrict markets for the timber by banning log exports or overtax the farmer, we are creating a situation where the farmer will no longer grow trees.  If he cannot make money, he will not tree-farm.  He will sell his tree farm so that it can grow houses.  The land that grows trees is the natural resource; the trees  are just a crop.

7          Legislation is constantly being introduced to take away the private-property rights of tree farmers.  They are beleaguered by the public, who believe that any forest belongs to the public.  Who, after, buys the land and pays the taxes?  Who invests money in property that will yield them an income only once every 20 to 30 years?  Would John Q. Public picnic in a farmer's wheat field?

8          The tree farmer must have a diversified market.  When there is a building slump in this country, it is vital to the industry to have an export market.  Earlier recessions were devastating to tree farmers until markets were developed overseas.  Some trees have little market value in the United States.  The logs China and Korea bought in the late '80's could not be sold here to cover the cost of delivery.

9          As to the wildlife becoming extinct, that is a joke that is not very funny.  Animals thrive in clear-cuts better than in old-growth timber.  Look at the Mount St. Helens blast area.  Nature created an immense clearing now deer, elk and other wildlife are returning in numbers.  Why?  Because there is more food growing in an open area than under the tall trees.  And as for the spotted owl, surely the 8.5 million acres set aside is enough to maintain quite a respectable owl population.  Numerous recent observations show that the owl lives in second-growth timber as well as in old growth.  In the Wenatchie National Forest there are more than 250 examples of spotted owls living in other than old-growth timber.  The owl is a tool of the environmentalist groups to get what they want: the complete eradication of the species Logger.

10        Beautiful new trees:  Consider the scenic value of a preserved old-growth forest versus a managed stand of timber.  In Glacier National Park, Mont., for example, which is totally untouched, one sees the old trees, the dead and dying trees, the windfalls crisscrossing the forest.  In a managed forest, one sees the older stands with the forest floor cleared of the dead windfalls, leaving a more parklike setting.  In the younger stands, one sees the beautiful new trees with their brilliant greens thrusting their tops to the sky and, in the clear-cuts, before the new trees obscure the view, one sees the huckleberry bushes with their luscious-tasting berries, the bright pink of fireweed and deer and elk feeding.  True environmentalists husband the land; they do not let the crops stagnate and rot.  Tree farming regenerates the trees and  utilizes the product.


11        A tree farmer from Sweden (where they are fined if they do not  tree-farm their forests) asked me recently why we do not just explain these facts to the environmental groups so that they will work with  us instead of against us.  Well, do you know the difference between a terrorist and an environmentalist?  It is easier to reason with the terrorist. 


My essay and questions answered... with her response.
Katie Brown
English 200
Definition Essay, Ass. #5
9/25/13
How good is your Cosmetologist?
            Almost everyone has hair.  It is a big part of our lives.  It doesn’t just grow on our heads.  It is all over our bodies.  From before birth, we have hair.  Some of us are born with a lot of hair, and some none.  The majority of women go through life having a cosmetologist take care of their hair.  What exactly does it mean to be a good Cosmetologist?  Going to a good school?  Having a lot of experience?  Having nice combs?  All of these are great questions.  I have been a Cosmetologist for over 12 years now, and I can tell you that most people don’t even know what a Cosmetologist is, let alone know what it takes to be a good one. 
            Cosmetology is the study and performance of Hair, Nails and Esthetics (being facials, waxing, and skin care).  In California, it is very stressful to get licensed as a Cosmo.  The schooling isn’t nearly as difficult as the State Board Exam.  After a long 9-10 months of 40 hours a week schooling, you take a state licensing test that starts at 5:00AM and lasts until 4:30PM, consisting of a practical with a live model and a written test.
            While growing up, I felt like I could always do my own hair.  I would always have someone in a salon cut it, but as far as hair color goes, I did it.  It didn’t always turn out quite right.  Sometimes, it worked like a charm.  I would do Blonde hi-lites, and they looked great.  Other times, I just chose the box with the color I wanted on the front, and it came out not looking so good.  There was one time, I decided to test my ability right before cheerleading pictures.  It was a disaster!  My hair came out a “Bright Golden Blonde”, just as the box said, yet it looked more like a dark yellow hot mess.  Without experience and the “eye” for hair color, I was lost.  I headed to the salon that weekend, and had a Cosmo fix it.  It was quite the experience. 
            I still didn’t learn my lesson.  Once again, I did it myself.  When I was a senior in High School, I decided that I wanted “Christina Aguilera Blonde”.  She was very popular at that time, and her new music video had just come out with her Blonde hair looking so cute!  So I headed to the hair store, and bought some color.  It came out, again, awful!  There were dark spots and different colors of blonde all over my head.  This was of course, right before my senior year book picture.  I, again, headed to the salon that weekend, and my hair was fixed by someone who knew what she was doing.  This was the last time that was ever going to happen to me.  I had decided right out of High School that I would go to Beauty School. And I had to re-do my senior pictures.
            After a long and grueling school and licensing process, I had my Cosmo license.  I started working in a salon, and did for 12 years.  I have seen all that have come in thinking the same way I did; they can do it better.  The problem, is that those individuals that think they can, always end up coming in for someone to fix it.
            When I have a client in my chair, I am able to look at their hair, face, skin color, and clothing style to make a judgment of what would look good on them and fit their needs and wants.  It is my job to do so.  When a woman comes to me and asks for thick blonde stripes in her hair, it is my job to let her know if that will work, talk about what shade of blonde, if she wants bangs or not, how to style the newly colored hair and if she wants a cut as well as what type of cut.  When Cosmos don’t ask these questions, or consult the client on different options, they aren’t performing correctly.  Their name is on that product, and if they fail or succeed, everyone will know.  When people see a woman with nice hair, they ask where she got it done.  When people see someone with awful hair, that client usually offers information about that Cosmo freely in a voice of warning to those who will listen. 
            A good Cosmo needs to be interested in listening to their client and not worried about the money they are making.  Often times, Cosmos just see you as another paycheck, don’t listen to what you say, and give you 3-4 hi-lites and call it good.  I recently started going to a new Cosmo for my hair color.  I got tired of doing it myself.  I am kind of a nightmare client.  I will dissect every foil they put in my hair and ask what they are doing with it, to make sure they are doing it right.  But I know what I want.  Others don’t always know what they want, and it is the job of the Cosmo to find out.          
            So the next time you visit your Cosmo, quietly survey them and make sure they are asking you questions about what you want for color, cut , and style, offering advice from their experience, and asking about tone of color.  If these three main bases are covered, you must have a good Cosmetologist.

Purple is what I answered with.
Katie Brown
English 200
Ass. #6.2
9/26/13
A Logger’s Lament - Assignment


Look for the author’s overall thesis and write it below.


Then find at least 3 claims that have support and a warrant for each.  There may be many claims, but you only need to look at three.  Just be sure each claim you choose also has support and an underlying warrant.

1.  Claim:     Loggers are not going to cut down all trees.

2.  Support for the claim:        There are in the national forests in Washington and Oregon (not to mention other states) approximately 8.5 million acres of forested land, mostly old growth set aside, never to be used for timber production; the State of Washington Forest Practices Act, established in 1973, specifies that all land that is clear-cut of trees must be replanted unless converted to some other use.

3.  Underlying Warrant:          In the last 20 years in Clark County, Wash., alone, the Department of Natural Resources has overseen the planting of at least 15,000 acres of previously unforested private lands.

1.  Claim:          Clear cutting is not a bad word.

2.  Support for the claim:          To a tree farmer, clear-cutting is no more than the final harvest of that generation of trees.  The next spring, he reforests the land.

3.  Underlying Warrant:           Contrary to public opinion, it does not  take 300 to 400 years to grow a Douglas fir tree to harvestable age.


1.  Claim:    in order to keep this flow of wood products available, we need to keep it economically feasible to grow trees.
                                                           
2.  Support for the claim:                If we restrict the tree-farming practices because we do not like clear-cuts or because some animal might (and probably might not) become extinct, or we restrict markets for the timber by banning log exports or overtax the farmer, we are creating a situation where the farmer will no longer grow trees.

3.  Underlying Warrant: .         If he cannot make money, he will not tree-farm

After you find a minimum of three, explain whether or not you agree or disagree with the author and why.

            I agree totally with this author.  I feel like she is stating the facts and that she is giving an opinion based on experience rather than just fact.   Many times, I feel like people in general make an opinion based not on fact, but on feelings which in turn makes for a bad argument.  I feel like a lot of laws are based on feelings and not on how things really should be.  If we had more people in the world that made laws that were based on fact, than it would in turn be a better country.  There are too many lobbyists…but I won’t get on that soapbox.  As far as the logger goes, I find that we have similar ideas.  My best friend’s dad is a logger and I have worked with him and talked with him about his work.  My dad was also a firefighter for the Forest Service for many years, so to me, trees are just a crop.  They need farming and harvesting just like any other crop to be beneficial and profitable.  This was a good article.
 Comments
Hi Katie,
Great essay; it may take years to become a Cosmetologist, but it takes years to find a good one.  A couple of years ago, my hairdresser went out on maternity leave...akkkkk.  Then she decided to take a year off....double akkkkk.  Since I wore my hair short, you would think it would be easy to find someone to cut it....no WAY!  I went to the best salons, supposedly the best haircutters, and OUCH, did I have some terrible haircuts.  Finally, mine came back to work and all she said was, "What in the h..l happened to your hair!"  Not everyone can cut short hair; eventhough, they say they can........


A Logger's Lament
This is a difficult assignment - I have you read this essay to find the overall claim (thesis) the author is trying to make.  In all GOOD arguments, there should be a main claim (thesis) what the author’s main message is, and several other claims (points or topics) which should support the main claim.
In every argument a claim should be supported with facts, statistics, personal examples, etc.  The key to the supporting information is they should all be VERIFIABLE in some way.  In other words, you should be able to go directly to the supporting evidence and be able to look it up yourself to find out more.
Warrants are a bit more difficult to spot.  A Warrant gives extra support to your claims.  These are usually things MOST people agree upon without argument. 
For example, if you are arguing the negative effects of child abuse, an underlying warrant here would be:  most of us agree it is NOT OK TO HURT CHILDREN.  When you see a statement like this, it is pretty hard to argue in the opposite direction.  Most people will agree with you; it is not okay to hurt children.  Therefore, your claim has extra support - who in their right mind is going to argue this.
The downfalls in “A Logger’s Lament” are she makes all sorts of claims throughout the entire essay.  None of these claims are supported with verifiable evidence.  She throws all sorts of facts and numbers into the essay, but none are verifiable and do not directly relate to her claims - she is all over the place!
She makes tons of false analogies such as comparing a field of wheat to fully grown trees.  She also compares the Mount St. Helen’s blast area to a clear cut; stating these are better areas for animals.  The list goes on and on and on.
Finally, she loses all credibility when she compares an environmentalist to a terrorist.  Did anyone notice her switch up from using the word Logger, to Tree Farmer - who dislikes a farmer…
It is good to read crazy arguments such as this; it helps us to see what really bad arguments are.  When we are looking at good arguments in comparison, it is easy to see the difference.
For those of you who struggled with this, Good Try - I hope you have recovered from trying to make this assignment work.  It is impossible, because it is not valid - it is what we call a RANT!
Lynn


Wednesday, September 18, 2013

I love fall.

The leaves are starting to change colors...well, lets be honest!  All there really is here are Evergreen and Pine trees.  The Pine "leaves" are starting to die.  They are turning an ugly brown, but that is the closest we are going to get here in FB.  So I am just going to enjoy it.  School has been SO grueling.  I just don't have time for anything else.  I barely have time for the kids.  It is sad, and I feel like I just wasn't ready to start school just yet.  Or at least, not full time.  It is too late though, so it is going to be a rough semester.  I will be taking a lighter load next semester.  
The kids have been kind of driving me crazy lately.  Braxton has just been so needy, but it probably has to do with the fact that i am at the computer every chance i get to get some HW done.
This is after lunch.  Braxton seems to think it is necessary to rub his hands that are covered in Peanut Butter and Jelly all through out his hair.  After this picture, I felt like it might be getting close to time for his first haircut... i think i will keep thinking about it.  
 Bubba was in the bathtub and just having a ball!  His sister has been getting really snotty lately!  I am hoping that it is just a phase, but this particular night, she decided to tell me to shut up!  I don't even know where she heard that, but she was upset when i told her to get to time out, and she told me to shut up!  Needless to say, Braxton took a bath alone.  He is loving just all the room!
 Here is the little miss attitude.  We took her to ballet.  She is loving it.  This was the first week, where the teacher said she did just amazing!  Well last week, i left her there, and the teacher said that she didn't listen at all and that if she kept that way, she would not be allowed in the class for another year.  WELL!  So, we are going to try it again this week.  I am hoping she will get things together, or we are out of luck, since that is the only ballet class in FB.
 Braxton really is a boy.  The other day, he was trying to climb into Olivia's grocery cart, and slipped and smacked his forehead on the side of the desk.  It cut open and he was screaming!  Luckily, it looked worse than it was.  It was gone in a few days.

 A few weeks ago, we went to the first FB game in FB.  It was fun and it lasted for about 10 minutes, before they were both driving me crazy.  We left and decided to not do that again.  But fun while it lasted.  As you can see, bubba has discovered how to say cheese for pictures!
Can't wait for the holidays.  It is coming soon, and we are heading to Texas for Thanksgiving.  This is the first time we are going to Texas and on an airplane with both kids.  I am excited to see my brothers new house.
Hopefully we can figure out something so we can do thing annually!
We are also trying to get foster kids.  We are really excited and it will be a new and fun chapter for our family!

Tuesday, September 3, 2013

Paul Bunyan Days

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8igQwfe5r5U

I love this movie!



This weekend we had Paul Bunyan days.  It was really fun.  We had a parade and Ben was in it with the football team.  I forgot my camera, so i didn't get any actual pictures.  This is from the paper.  But it was fun and the kids had fun.  Bens parents came and visited.  We went to the craft fair on saturday.  It was fun.  I wanted to do more, but we are so limited with the kids and nap times and all.  We have been QUITE busy this summer.  Ben started helping coach the football team.  he has had so much fun with that.  Football is kind of a big deal in this town.  Everyone goes to the football games on friday nights.  

One thing i did do this summer was visit with some of the girls i did cheerleading with in High school.  It was good to see all of them and catch up, although it was not long enough and it was too long since we had all seen eachother.  I hope we can get together every few years.

I started school.  I decided to go back to school.  It is really hard and time consuming, but i am really enjoying learning.  
We got moved. FINALLY!  it took us sometime to actually unpack everything, but we moved all of our stuff in one day.  it was nice.  I don't actually have a whole lot of time since i have a ton of HW to do, but i noticed that i haven't updated our blog in a really long time!  I did want to catch you all up and say hi. 
I will try to post some more pictures of everyone and things going on here at the coast.

Saturday, July 6, 2013

its been a while....

Well to start off, Ben didn't finish school this year until June 14... SOOOO LATE!!!  Right after school was out, i mean litterally, we headed to Oroville.  We were there for one night and the next morning we headed to McCloud, CA.  We rented a cabin up there and it was SO much fun!!  The whole Brown family was together before Caleb left on his mission.  This is one of the new family pictures we got while being up there.  
 We also got a whole group shot.  it is always fun to be a little silly.  It was nice, but it was warm.  since we have been on the coast for a year now, we have not been used to the heat.  my kids did ok...but not great.
 When we got home, the following Monday, 6/24, we didn't get home until like 11pm.  it was a long and late drive.  the next morning, we hung out and went to the beach.  Wednesday, Ben left for Football camp for 3 days in Yuba City.  it was long. that friday was Braxton's first bday.  He is such a big boy.  we celebrated at Ben's Parents house, we bought him a ice cream cake, and he didn't like how cold it was.  so we decided to celebrate when we got back.  Just our little family, but it was fun.  He still cried about the hats...what a baby!



 He calmed down as soon as i gave him some cake.


 Devoured the cake and of course rubbed in all over his hair.

 Olivia was so excited all day.  we went to the store in the morning and got the party stuff, and she couldn't stop talking about it all day until it was time.

 Happy Birthday Braxton!!
 Bath time after the cake.  Daddy came home just in time for cake.
 This is the little families of deer we have in the yard.  There is one mama by the tree and one baby behind the tree, then another mama to the far right, and her two babies in the center.  super cute.


 Olivia getting a taste of my high heels... she was doing pretty good.
 This last weekend was the 4th.  We had a ton of things planned, and NOTHING WORKED OUT!!!  we drove to Willits for the parade, and on the way Olivia puked ALL OVER the back seat...like 4 times.  we had to stop and clean everything up.  and we had another 20 minutes to drive with the car smelling like puke until we got to safeway to get some resolve.

 Finally at the parade, it was like 95 and NO SHADE!  so hot.  then afterward, we headed to lumberjacks for lunch.  it seemed to be great, until the waitress brought our drinks and dumped Mt. Dew all over Braxton and soaked him.  Then she was kind of rude after that, so Ben had a talk with the manager and they covered the bill.  that sucked!! needless to say, we skipped the firework show and there is one here in FB tonight, but after we went to Walmart today, we are skipping that and heading to bed early.

Well this weekend, was packed.  Ben headed to Oroville for a endowment and sealing session with the Cherry's.  Ben and Kevin grew up together and Kevin's dad went through the temple and then his parents were sealed.  Ben's quote " The Cherry's did a lot for me growing up, I really want to be there and support them."  I wish i could have gone, but i stayed with the kids.  Then on Monday he has an interview with a school that we really want to end up at.  So  we will be fasting for that and praying like crazy that he gets it.  it is a great area, it is at a high school, and we are much closer to family.
All we know is that Heavenly Father is in charge, and last week when i fasted for this interview and job offer, about 2 days later, Ben got a call for the interview.  So lets all keep our faith up!

Sunday, June 9, 2013

the valley


Braxton looking at Olivia playing outside.  he wants to be out there so badly with her, but he can't.  it isn't fenced in...poor baby.  He sure is getting big!



ps..we are going to the valley for 2 weeks this friday!  CANT WAIT!!!

Tuesday, June 4, 2013

24 days



in just 24 days, Braxton will be 1.  I can't believe that he is almost 1.  man, time goes by fast.  here is Olivia right before her 1st bday.  She and B dont look a whole lot like eachother here.  but i thought it was funny that i have pictures of them both in an umbrella stroller at the same age.  I think his bday will be more eventful.  i am pretty sure he will be much more messy that Olivia was with her bday cake.

Monday, May 27, 2013

shoveling sand in the mouth!

Ben and i got a chance to go on a much needed date last weekend.  we went to star-trek and to ice cream.  it was really fun and i actually took time to get my hair and makeup done.  it is a rare occasion when that happens, especially both hair AND makeup.  it was nice to spend some one on one time with him.  usually our time is spend in bed after the kids are asleep with our door shut because if Olivia hears us talking, she will  yell and want to come out.  so we have to be quite for a while until they are both asleep.  it is the same in the mornings.  if we get up later than 5 to go to the bathroom, she hears us and wants to come out.  super frustrating.  my kids are early risers.

 mothers day...  these are just too cute.  i love it how Braxton looks like he can smile on command...not there yet, but he is getting better at it.
 my mom came to visit this weekend.  it was really fun to have her here.  we went to glass beach and then to pudding creek bridge.  Friday was really windy and cold when we went to glass beach.  Olivia loved being able to collect shells though.

 the terrain was a little rough for this guy and his stroller.  we stayed up top while the two above went below to get treasures.
 it sure was a pretty day though.
 the next day we went to pudding creek and played in the sand.  Olivia loved it.
 this was Braxtons first time in the sand.  i was a little nervous but after a while of me just convincing myself that sand would be EVERYWHERE and we couldn't  control it, i let go and it was super fun.  he loved just being able to play in the sand.


 we had fun and it got closer and closer to his nap time.  i was thinking about how nice it was and how good he was being, then when i looked  at his face, he was shoveling sand in his mouth with that spoon in his hand.  once i took that from him, it all went sour QUICK!!  it then was obvious that he was tired and absolutely ready for nap time.
 Olivia stealing the toys from Braxton...  it has started already.


i took this this morning.  he is just getting so big.  he is trying to walk now and when he pulls himself up, he hits his head on the bottom of the dinning table.  it is so fun to watch how big he is getting.

 not to mention he LOVES Olivia's cartoons.
nothing special today.  i am just glad track is over and Ben is ours for the summer.  we are going to Ukiah today for our monthly Walmart trip and maybe going to Ross.  it is raining here so there is not much else to do.  plus daddy is home today!!